Trees tolerate and accept changes and setbacks of the changing seasons without complaint or resistance, always remaining true to their inner nature and purpose.
We can discover surprising lessons from trees just outside our windows about enduring life’s challenges and embracing its good fortunes. Explore with me how trees embody the concept of forbearance and how we can apply this wisdom to our lives.
I recently revisited the book 365 Tao by Deng Meng Dao. I came across a passage entitled “Forbearance” that resonated with me. I felt overwhelmed after an unexpected request to take on more work. My understanding and expanded interpretation of forbearance suggest that we imitate the patience and resilience of trees.
Trees embody the concept of forbearance in many ways. They sway and bend in the wind, their branches and leaves rustling and dancing in the breeze. In the fall, their leaves turn brilliant red, orange, and gold hues before gently floating to the ground. When winter comes, they stand bare, stripped of their foliage, yet they remain steadfast and patient, waiting for the warmth of spring to return. They endure misfortune, shedding leaves during storms but never breaking.
To the outside observer, they seem silent and unconcerned. Still, they constantly grow and gather resources from the air and earth to thrive. Trees tolerate and accept changes and setbacks of the changing seasons without complaint or resistance, always remaining true to their inner nature and purpose.

So, how can we use the example of trees to help us endure life’s challenges and accept its blessings? Trees provide a great example of forbearance. They remain solid and patient even when their leaves fall during winter storms. Although it may not seem like it, trees grow and strengthen internally. They can withstand changing circumstances, remaining true to their nature regardless of life’s good or bad moments.
The natural world brims with examples of living well and overcoming challenges. Trees embody forbearance and resilience, inspiring us to endure life’s challenges gracefully and appreciate life with gratitude and wonder. By observing and learning from the natural world, we gain new perspectives and insights into navigating the ups and downs of life. Nature always awaits us, ready to admire and learn from us, regardless of location or circumstances. So, the next time you feel stuck or overwhelmed, take a moment to connect with the natural world around you. Embody the forbearance of trees and uncover the inspiration and guidance you seek and deserve.
Inspiration: Deng, Ming-Dao. 365 Tao: Daily Meditations. San Francisco: HarperOne, 1992.

